Falling in Love

Several years ago, I was at a company event where Jim Kouzes, co-author of The Leadership Challenge , offered up what he called the "best-kept secret" of successful leaders. His answer? Love . The author professed that the secret sauce to effective leadership is to stay in love with the people we work with, the products we provide and the customers that we serve. Staying in love requires that you fall in love in the first place - and true love takes time. While common career advice is "do what you love" or "follow your passion", the reality is that most people are not pre-wired with passion just waiting to be instantly matched to a lifelong career. Even people who study technical skills (doctor, teacher, lawyer) would say that deep passion for their craft required time and experience. Those hoping for the perfect match from the start are typically disappointed (most of us know at least one former teacher). In the book So Good They Can&